Hi, I'm Alvin
I was an anxious white collar who was always rushing to achieve my next goal, but unable to take a sacred pause.
“Actually, I was too afraid to take rests.”
Money did not come easy for me, so I bought into the hustling mindset and begun climbing the corporate ladder as soon as I started working.
I will spend the NEXT 15 YEARS HONING MY CRAFT and WORKING MY ASS OFF in Corporate
And for the next 15 years, I progressed faster than most of my peers.
The ride was exhilarating, but there was one problem.
I was RUNNING A RACE THAT WASN’T MINE.
I didn’t feel fulfilled, no matter how much I achieved.
I worked long hours, thinking it was for the better. Believing that I can slow down and rest once I finish this one.
The rest never came.
Although I seemed to have everything that I had dreamed about, I still felt
- ❌Stuck
- ❌ Uncertain
- ❌ Jaded
- ❌ A lost sense of purpose
- ❌ Wanting to live a life of ease but felt pressured to accumulate more
- ❌ Hated every minute of after work hours drinking session but felt like I had no choice but to attend them
- ❌ Felt like my life was simply a predictable routine of rushing to somewhere, mostly NO WHERE
This thing that was gnawing slowly into every bit of me, I did not know what it was. Each time I achieved a goal, there was momentary happiness. But it was short lived.
In order to keep feeling this “temporary high“, I had to keep pushing the envelope, to keep working, to keep achieving.
It felt like I was on the perfect cruise ship with everything I needed. I just have no clue where this ship was headed to.
My RUDE AWAKENING happened when I got LAID OFF for the 4th time
It took me 4 layoffs to realise that I was doing the same thing (HUSTLING) and expecting a different result (To Feel Peace & Fulfilment).
All the time I had spent looking outside of myself, I was building other peoples’ dreams, but never my own.
I never realise that my corporate achievement was actually nothing but a facade of Security.
Everything was impermanent. And in my false sense of truth that I gave myself overtime, I had not paid attention to what I truly needed deep down.
And that is to SLOW DOWN, and FIND MY PURPOSE.
I began to research corporate burnout, emotional regulation, mindfulness and healing techniques.
I studied cognitive behavioural coaching and combined what I learned about how our brain works with cognitive causal based coaching tools and figured out how to achieve joy and contentment, while still being able to function in a high growth, fast paced work environment.
Achieving all the above while gaining even more clarity about my purpose.
I created a new way of life using small, manageable steps and techniques that worked based on a simple concept:
You don’t stop and take a sacred pause, without something unfolding in your mind first.
The changes I experienced were so profound I became a Certified Life Coach and created a program for unfulfilled over achievers.
Because of what I have been through myself, I want to give you the tools to unstuck your life, and get back to truly living life on your own terms again.
This means you will have the ability to decide what you want or don’t want in your life, how you think and feel about life’s drama, and the best of all, stop feeling guilty about something you said NO to, that other people got upset about.
Honestly, there is a lot of CRAP in life, and I’m perfectly ok about calling that out. No Sugar Coating. BUT, if you understand how to play by the rules of the Universe, you FLOW.
I CAN TEACH YOU THAT.
How it works?
The last thing I want is to guarantee changes. Because changes, they are hard, personal and emotional. This isn’t a masterclass in which you follow a simple pre-planned agenda and execute away.
This is a very personal journey for yourself. When you decide to embark on this walk, you are saying, I recognise the pain and confusion I am going through, but I am willing to be honest, genuine, and apply whatever I am taught, and take one step at a time. And if you decide to come on this journey, what I can guarantee is to continue to hold your hand, and create the safest place you can let down and be your authentic yourself. Until the day you won’t need me anymore.
If you have spent 3/4 of your life taking on this conditioned lifestyle that ended up burning you out and leading you into a path where you don’t even know what you want anymore, or how to create joy, you cannot expect to de-condition that in just 8 weeks.
Our most successful clients are those who want to see lasting changes in their lives and are willing to take action to make that happen.
I am simply shining the light for you. But you must DO YOUR OWN WORK BY WALKING THE WALK.
I only do personal 1:1 coaching at the moment.
Burnout recovery requires a lot of mindset and emotional unpacking. Finding your life’s purpose and learning how to create lasting Joy needs training. This takes time and energy. Offering a 1:1 container is the best way for me to deliver the best value and create Magic with clients for now.
I am an experienced Recruiter prior to becoming a Coach. Throughout my 16 years in Corporate Recruiting, I’ve worked with people from fresh graduates to Senior Executives, helping them navigate their careers.
I also have a few professional Certifications in Life and Spiritual coaching modalities.
Like you, I went through that same path of jadedness, confusion, and contemplation. So I know where the potholes are in this journey to avoid. You don’t have to walk the same path as I did.
The coaching container is a 8 sessions program. 90 minutes per session, twice a month. Typically completed in 16 weeks.
After 16 weeks, you would have grasped very powerful modalities about life and will be able to start implementing the things you have learnt and see results. Depending on individuals, some results can be instant.
Time with me will be mind-blowing, and reality shattering.
You will continue to practice until you embody your new higher improved self. This is a lifelong journey. Once you start, you never stop evolving and improving.
The frameworks you will learn, they are powerful universal truths. Hence, you can apply them to ANYTHING in your life.
The real work really happens after 16 weeks. You have learnt, and now you must work. Synchronicities will surface, ideas will dance in your mind, and you will start seeing perspective shifts in yourself. During this period of evolution and healing, you will have full support from me via EMAIL and VOXER.
All questions will be answered and guidance to support you on integrating your new knowledge will be provided, FOR FREE (12 month).
By then, you would have upgraded and found the Ease and Peace you have always wanted.
And I hope you pass it on, and go on to help someone else in need.
To ensure that we only offer this sessions to people who are READY to receive. I believe in working with the right fit clients.
Right fit clients are people who have the exact problem that I know I can help. They are also at a place where they truly want help. This is important because if there is any form of hard resistance, then the time isn’t right for you YET.
- Sessions will be conducted via video conference. (Video links will be sent to your calendar prior to the calls)
- All sessions have a hard requirement to switch on the video function.
- Calls will be recorded for growth and learning purposes.
- We take privacy very seriously. Recorded sessions will be kept confidential and will only be shared with clients directly.
- Sessions have flow and structure. We will discuss various modalities on mindset, emotional and spiritual level.
- They are also client led. So this will take the form of an intimate conversation, rather than that of a Mastermind/Course.
